NATIONAL CALL TO ACTION:

NATIONAL MARRIAGE COUNTER SIT-IN FOR MARRIAGE EQUALITY

Gay Recruiters, in Bloomington Indiana, having been profoundly inspired by the courageous actions of our brothers, sisters and straight allies at the Marriage Clerk sit-ins in Denver and San Diego on May 26th and 27th and Chicago on Valentine’s Day, staged a very successful Marriage Counter Sit-in for Marriage Equality in Bloomington, Indiana on Thursday July 2nd 2009 (also see: here and here).

In honor of the 40th Anniversary of the Stonewall Riots; in memory of our great LGBT civil rights movement leaders* Harvey Milk, Del Martin, and Barbara Gittings; and in tribute to our current living legends of the LGBT civil rights movement*, Frank Kameny and Phyllis Lyon (*and others too numerous to mention!) – we urge our LGBT brothers and sisters along with our Straight Allies to respond to our National Call to Action during the week of June 29th entitled:

National Marriage Counter Sit-in for Marriage Equality

Groups in Reno and Las Vegas Nevada joined our call to action. (Thank You, Reno and Las Vegas!)

Now that that historic Stonewall Anniversary week has concluded…we ENVISION Marriage Counter Sit-ins for Equality continuing NATIONWIDE until we have secured Marriage Equality FEDERALLY!  We believe this is the best means to keep the cause of Marriage Equality in the national spotlight and we encourage you to organize a sit-in in your city!

While we, at Gay Recruiters, believe strongly in the Dallas Principles as a broad outline for the unremitting and uncompromising struggle for our complete and inherent civil rights on par with all other Americans, we additionally feel that peaceful nonviolent civil disobedience as practiced by Gandhi, Martin Luther King, César Chávez, Rosa Parks - and many others whose memory we so deeply revere - is necessary to obtain our FULL civil rights. We find this especially true in a period of stagnation and backsliding such as we are experiencing all too clearly in today’s headlines which finds the President we so overwhelmingly supported, President Obama, now supporting DOMA.

While we believe that respectful, dialogue and discourse has a key place in our fight, we believe - as MLK did - that our struggle will unnecessarily persist for many more years without the concomitant use of peaceful nonviolent civil disobedience. The decades have proven these methods - courageously practiced by our predecessors - to have been the correct complement to public discourse. Now OUR moment has arrived. In emulating our heroes of history, Destiny now leads us to honor their courage with our own! For those who feel this is the wrong tactic, we urge you to study the inspirational words of Martin Luther King which he issued in his Letter from Birmingham Jail. In these relevant excerpts, we have found truths for the ages which inspire us in our national call to action:

“You may well ask: "Why direct action? Why sit-ins, marches and so forth? Isn't negotiation a better path?" You are quite right in calling, for negotiation. Indeed, this is the very purpose of direct action. Nonviolent direct action seeks to create such a crisis and foster such a tension that a community which has constantly refused to negotiate is forced to confront the issue. It seeks to so dramatize the issue that it can no longer be ignored….we must we see the need for nonviolent gadflies to create the kind of tension in society that will help men rise from the dark depths of prejudice and racism to the majestic heights of understanding and brotherhood…

“The purpose of our direct-action program is to create a situation so crisis-packed that it will inevitably open the door to negotiation…

“…My friends, I must say to you that we have not made a single gain civil rights without determined legal and nonviolent pressure. Lamentably, it is an historical fact that privileged groups seldom give up their privileges voluntarily…

“…We know through painful experience that freedom is never voluntarily given by the oppressor; it must be demanded by the oppressed. Frankly, I have yet to engage in a direct-action campaign that was "well timed" in the view of those who have not suffered unduly from the disease of segregation. For years now I have heard the word "Wait!" It rings in the ear of every Negro with piercing familiarity. This "Wait" has almost always meant "Never." We must come to see, with one of our distinguished jurists, that "justice too long delayed is justice denied…

“…One has not only a legal but a moral responsibility to obey just laws. Conversely, one has a moral responsibility to disobey unjust laws. I would agree with St. Augustine that "an unjust law is no law at all…

“…I have been gravely disappointed with the white moderate….who constantly says: "I agree with you in the goal you seek, but I cannot agree with your methods of direct action"; who paternalistically believes he can set the timetable for another man's freedom; who lives by a mythical concept of time and who constantly advises the Negro to wait for a "more convenient season." Shallow understanding from people of good will is more frustrating than absolute misunderstanding from people of ill will. Lukewarm acceptance is much more bewildering than outright rejection…

“…One day the South will know that when these disinherited children of God sat down at lunch counters, they were in reality standing up for what is best in the American dream …thereby bringing our nation back to those great wells of democracy which were dug deep by the founding fathers in their formulation of the Constitution and the Declaration of Independence.”

We believe this is the perfect time to celebrate and honor the 40th Anniversary year of the Stonewall by staging a historic nationwide protest for Marriage Equality.

Sisters, Brothers and Allies, we know we have many battles ahead of us – but we feel Marriage Equality is a paramount civil rights cause in our struggle for full equal rights. We can do it! We believe in the incredible organizing potential of our community powered by the unquenched thirst for our full civil rights under the law!

We feel magic in the air! We feel Destiny calling us to be part of this historic moment -OUR moment - in history. Now is the time, as we were told by our “fierce advocate in Chief”, for those who've been told for so long by so many to be cynical and fearful and doubtful about what we can achieve to put our hands on the arc of history and bend it once more toward the hope of a better day.

Now is our time for FULL equality under the law. Not later, not next year, not next decade – NOW is our magic moment in history.

So we ask you - across the nation in your town or city - to GET BUSY NOW planning your own Marriage Counter Sit-in for Marriage Equality in the best traditions of Gandhi, Martin Luther King, Rosa Parks, César Chávez and the lunch counter sit-ins of the 50’s and 60’s!

For those who believe such a nationwide campaign is impossible, we can only invoke the words of Margaret Mead:

“Never doubt that a small group of people can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has."

Just a cliché? This call for a National Campaign of Marriage Counter Sit-ins began on Facebook after the Day of Decision protests as just one voice in a sea of silence in answer to the question “what next?” It immediately grew to be a dream of our local group, and now - just two weeks later - it’s being brought to the national stage. And with your dedication and help the dream will fly – becoming part of the great history of our relentless struggle for FULL LGBT equal rights.

Brothers, Sisters, Allies...JOIN US! Grasp OUR rainbow arc of history and bend it once more toward the hope of a better day!

Please visit nonviolence4equality.org for more information about peaceful nonviolent civil disobedience and how to plan and organize your action.

Linda Giovanna Zambanini, Co-founder, Organizer, Gay Recruiters, Bloomington, IN

NONVIOLENT POLITICAL PROTEST RESOURCE LINKS:

Sit In 4 Equality Network Facebook Group

The Great Nationwide Kiss-In facebook group

Gay Recruiters facebook group

Nonviolence4Equality

Soulforce

The Dallas Principles

Ruckus Society

ACT-UP CD Manual

War Resisters League - Handbook for Nonviolent Campaigns

Voices for creative nonviolence

Christian Peacemakers

Gay Liberation Network

Divorce The Democrats

Fight4equality.org

National Equality March - Oct. 11, 2009

RECENT SIT-IN ACTION VIDEOS

 

"For many years now, I have been an outspoken supporter of civil and human rights for gay and lesbian people," King said at the 25th Anniversary Luncheon for the Lambda Legal Defense and Education Fund.... "Gays and lesbians stood up for civil rights in Montgomery, Selma, in Albany, Ga. and St. Augustine, Fla., and many other campaigns of the Civil Rights Movement," she said. "Many of these courageous men and women were fighting for my freedom at a time when they could find few voices for their own, and I salute their contributions."
- Coretta Scott King, Chicago Tribune quote, April 1, 1998

4 cleared in marriage-ban protest

By Felisa Cardona
The Denver Post
Posted: 02/13/2010 01:00:00 AM MST

Four of five people arrested for protesting in Denver's marriage-license office over the California Supreme Court's decision to uphold a same-sex marriage ban were acquitted of all charges Friday.

A Denver County Court jury found John Ferguson, Catherine Burns, Sharon Wilkins, Lewis Thompson and Donald Foxworth not guilty of failure to obey a lawful order.

But Burns was convicted of trespassing and sentenced to 40 hours of community service.

In May 2008, Burns was convicted of trespassing for staging a sit-in with her partner after the two were denied a marriage license in Denver.

On May 26, 2009, Burns and the other four protesters were arrested by Denver police in the Wellington Webb building at the office of the clerk and recorder because police said they were impeding others from obtaining a license.

Qusair Mohamedbhai, an associate at Killmer, Lane & Newman, took on the case without fee because he felt the protesters' First Amendment rights were trampled on when they were arrested for protesting in a public space.

Mohamedbhai said witness Daniel Stone and his fiancee went into the office during the protest and testified that the demonstrators did not prevent them from obtaining a license.

Co-counsel Mari Newman claimed the city attorneys who prosecuted the case had gays struck from the panel during jury selection.

"It is patently illegal for one side to strike all of the jurors because they share a common protective feature," she said. "The city did it three out of three times."

Assistant City Attorney Vince DiCroce said the jurors were excused not because they are gay but because they said they could not be impartial when questioned by the judge.

DiCroce said the defense did not raise the issue or make an objection about the jurors during selection.

 

Queer Rising Shuts Down Manhattan Marriage Office

John Carroll University GLBT Protest

Brian Feldman will marry ANYONE!

  http://www.brianfeldman.com/

 

Kitty Lambert's Wedding

On Wednesday, February 10th, LGBT activist Kitty Lambert attempts to receive a marriage license from the Buffalo City Clerk's office. Denied, she then turns to the crowd where a willing gay male steps forward.

 

Gay kiss-in in Paris for Valentine's day

KISS-IN for EQUALITY Taylor Square, Sydney

KISS-IN for EQUALITY - Valentine's Day 2010 from Erick James on Vimeo.

Community Action Against Homophobia (CAAH) event held at Taylor Square, Sydney, 14th February 2010.

CAAH believe Equal Marriage Rights is a basic Human Right that should be available to all couples of all sexes and sexual orientation. http://www.caah.org.au

Music used in this video is a cover of "Young Folks" by Peter, Bjorn & John.

 

 

Sit In 4 Equality Network Facebook Group